Tuesday, February 13, 2018

The little black bindi




The little black bindi tells a happy tale. A tale where the little girl wants to be like mamma and wear a bindi like her. A tale where a small desire of a little human being is fulfilled. A tale where mamma and baby make faces and take selfies and capture the moment for eternity.

A tale where the big human being looks in the mirror and smiles at the magic that that little black bindi is capable of. A tale of mamma- Ira maana moments. A tale where mamma wants to capture the grain of sand and let time stand still. A tale which makes happy memories that will stay for as long as there are little black bindis.

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Monday, February 5, 2018

Little Miss Busy, the Ira way




Being a parent, you soon discover that you need a Pandora’s box of ideas to keep your child occupied on different days. Days like when the child is ill and you have to keep her indoors, those long weekends and those weekends when your social calendar is light and those mid week days when the child is home for some random reason and you are wfh.
Over the last year, we have figured out a few things in this regard. However, the quest remains.
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  •  Prep the child for the activity you want to do

This helps them feel excited without completely breaking the suspense and they broadly know if it is a colouring or craft or kitchen activity or reading or some new thing that you shall try.
  • Create a suspense about it

Tell them the larger picture, retain the small details. Ask questions and figure out if they have something in mind that you may incorporate into the original idea.
  •       Do not treat this like a chore

The moment you treat this like a chore, it loses its charm and impact. Go with the flow. There is only so much you can plan.
  •       Understand the child’s attention span

For some activities, your child may be able to sit for a good 45-60 mins and be absorbed in it. Some activities, they will finish in 10 and want to do something else. Some, they may just be distracted to even attempt it completely.
  •       Keep a flexible , multi activity plan in mind

The little human beings are extremely creative and surprise us with all that they can come up with. So, keep the activities flexible, keep a few in mind and have space for unstructured play. Let it all unfold organically. What may start off as a word game may convert to a market place with your child selling the alphabet blocks, reading them phonetically.
  •       While you initiate, let it move to be child led

Do not micro-manage, wanting to hold their hands or forcing the rules. If it is about learning a game with stringent rules, instruct them accordingly. But if it is about an activity to spend time, learn a bit and have a lot of fun, let the child take the lead and behold, surprise you.
  •      Keep Heart

There will be days when nothing works and there will be days when it works seamlessly. Embrace both with love and be cautioned, there is more to come.
  •       It is ALWAYS about the child

Creating and building activities for them is not about you, it is about providing a sensorial experience to the child. So, remember, it is always about the child. You may love to play jenga but your child may chose to convert it to dominos. Go, with the flow and let it cascade.


Here are a few things that we did with Ira over the last few weeks, ensuring she was truly ‘Little Miss Busy’! These are picture collages and am going to leave you to imagine what more can be done. 

                                      Books and Jigsaw puzzles, they all tell multiple stories


                       Colour the world as you imagine it, Play with beads and cook them too


                           A new stamp activity gift that kept her busy for well over 30 minutes

         Turn any natural event into an activity to learn and have fun- the recent lunar eclipse event

          Cooking with papa is an all time favorite activity. Making Spinach Potato Peas patties.

#Ira #Iraisms #TalesAtThree #Activities #Keepingthechildbusy #Parenting 

Rima, you are deeply loved

                                                  Rima at Infinitea, Bengaluru Dearest Rima, I wish I wasn’t writing this letter to you. B...