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Saturday, May 3, 2025

What are you reading today?

 What are you reading today?



A question I often ask in my trainings to my participants, in my academic classes to my students.
Sometimes I get detailed answers on the book they are reading or listening to, the journal papers or some random article they read that morning.
Sometimes there are awkward silences.
Participants tell me they don't have time to read or they just don't read books; reels or viral LinkedIn posts are more entertaining.
I have often heard adults lamenting how kids dont read today and they are always on the gadgets.
Till a few years back, I would quietly judge wondering how can someone not read. But today, I am wiser I think. I try and understand the why but also how can we inculcate the habit of reading.
So, sharing what I tell my participants and students and what I tell the fellow parents, when they ask "How do we begin reading? " Or "How to get the child to read? "
1. Reading is not a competition- each of us read at a pace that works for us. There is no ideal time to finish a book. I do keep a track of how many books I read, what genre, new authors but that is only a personal benchmark.
2. Read anything you can get your hands on- a book, an article- short or long form, a magazine, a pamphlet, news shorts... Even what is written on newspaper packets or the statements on t-shirts.
3. All genres are good- let us stop being snooty about genres. We could have a favourite genre ourselves but let us refrain from imposing. Fiction, Non-fiction, Mystery, Romance, Drama, Magical realism, Translated works, Vernacular literature- all work.
4. If you are not enjoying a book, stop reading it. Don't be a victim of sunk cost fallacy... Time and life are precious. Sometimes some books just don't work for us and it is ok.
5. One is boring, want to read multiple books at the same time- Go-ahead. Over the years, I have realised that I prefer reading multiple books- one physical book and another on the kindle and sometimes all physical books... I usually read different genres simultaneously. That keeps the momentum and the interest.
6. Children mirror us adults, most times. So, if you are a parent who wants the child to read... Then you also reading helps the cause. Sometimes you could read out aloud to them or read along! Make it a family activity.
7. There is no perfect time to read. We can set aside a time everyday but also not be bound by it. I like to read when I have my morning coffee or when am travelling in the cab or when am waiting at the doctors or the bank or even at Ranga Shankara for eg. Once children take to reading, we see that they read everywhere and at all times.
8. Reading is not a tickbox activity or just a hobby. It over years becomes a part of who we are and shapes how we think, feel and act.
So, go ahead.. pick up just any book and read!


If you ‘No’se it, you know it

 


I often talk about self concept, self worth and self esteem in my sessions, nudging my participants to focus on self-love and acceptance. However, sometimes, that journey for self takes time, because we are most vulnerable often in the simplest situations. 

Sharing a piece of that vulnerability in the form of poetry!


If you ‘No’se it, you know it

An ode to my nose, my insecurities about its imperfections, a reminder of the judgement and taunts and yet the acceptance, the ‘I truly don’t care’ victory lap, 40 years too late, embracing it with a nose stud. And like Ira rhetorically says, “Can you breathe with your nose? Then it is a perfect nose!”

Hi there!

Ohh too blunt..

Just like a button

Did the gene just stunt

Can you smell the mutton?


Ohh too long

Just like a hook

The unmatched song

Dug deep in a book.


Ohh too fat

Just like a blob

Too much space taken

A weird door knob


Ohh Dear Nose

All those curious eyes

Judgements agnose

Say your good byes!


Hi Dear Nose

Look at you shining

Imperfectly perfect

Smiles you’re winning!


#Acceptance #EmbracingImperfections #LovePoetry #SelfLove




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