Urghhhh....

We always list what we love, what makes us happy, top this and top that...
Today, am in a mood to list the Top things that supremely irritate me, often pushing me to the edge of anger. People who know me will vouch for the fact that it takes a lot for me to lose my patience, get angry and shout at someone!!

When people blatantly lie
When people pretend
When the so called social status become a parameter of judgment
When people fake 'nicety'
When people take credit for work they have not done
When people do not give credit to people who have done the work
When people for the life of them can't praise someone
When people think they are the best, smartest...whatever est...
When people make politically incorrect statements(caste/ community/gender based)
and finally,
When people think they know everything...(for heavens or hells sake, grow up!)

am sure there are more...and i know these are personal thoughts...
some of the above may be well accepted or OK for some people...

All these instances make me feel, say and think...Urghhhhh!!!

Comments

Anonymous said…
I have a problem when people have a problem with people behaving in any way. But thats just me.
Madhurima said…
@anonymous: well...then u surely have a big problem:) interesting that you choose to be anonymous.
I have a problem with people who think anyone who's different from them is wrong. Plain wrong and doesn't deserve to live! Ugh!
Anonymous said…
I have a problem with people choosing to be anonymous. I think if they feel something they should just own up to it. Cowards!
Madhurima said…
@Pritesh: could not agree more... it is often the battle of the conforming and the non-conforming..
@anonymous 2: seriously?!
Anonymous said…
well,i have been going through your blogs recently,good ones,yet to have taste of all.
regarding people behaving the way they want without bothering its affect on people associated with them or surrounded by them shouldn't be matter of your disappointment as your life shouldn't be affected by such creatures in this world.
Make you own world a sphere of life where such actions can be over thrown or over come by your own mental piece and judgement about each thing.
Your life is in your hands to be happy or to be disturbed at the hands of others.
Never let anyone to overrule your happiness or to irritate you.The things which annoy you should be as if they are not by your side.It is not possible to change a person or system affecting you unless you make yourself strong enough to stand up courageously.
Regards.
Madhurima said…
@anonymous(june 6th):
thank you for reading my blog.
i think what you say is a good thing to do but just that we as human beings cant help being annoyed with some behaviours:)
Anonymous said…
hey do you know these words were said to me by you once,i do not want reveal my identity but you had been there in terms of counselling when i was going through same phase of life well the matter was different.we couldn't do much i mean i want more counselling sections in such psychological disturbances or simply the people associate with you or your own colleagues friends can turn up which you never imagined.i hope you will catch me now.
but really good piece of work,include more input to such causes,regards.s...
mani said…
hi.just read your blog quite interesting.just enjoy and live as u wish forget about everything.

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